7 reasons why nude is better for social activities with friends

[Danee]

When it comes to social activities, like having dinner with friends or doing a pool party, nothing is better that sharing this time in the simplest clothing choice: nudity. Of course, until you become a naturist, seasoned or beginner, the simple idea of baring it all in front of friends and family may sound weird if not inappropriate. However, for naturists, the only idea not to be naked is the one that is weird, not only because nudity is entirely natural but because you feel immensely better when naked. Nudity is a complete natural state and there’s nothing to be ashamed of by being nude alone and with others. There’s nothing sexual too. Unfortunately, our modern society has equaled the fact of being nude to being ready to have sex. This is just completely wrong for a naturist. Being nude is just being nude, nothing else. A naturist is nude because he loves the freedom it provides, because she loves to feel the sun and the wind on her naked body, and because she’s comfortable with her own body.
So once you’ve created a separation between sex and nudity, you can get pass beyond the shame of being nude. Nude, for a naturist, is not rude. Being nude is accepting ourselves, our own body with its flaws and imperfection. There’s no shame being a human being. Nobody’s perfect. Even the most beautiful human being, from a body’s perspective, has flaws. Perfection is an idea created by media and photoshoped images. Not that we should not take care of our own body and health, but the pursuit of perfection is a mirage. You have to love yourself and one of the best ways is to get naked in front of others. Your body confidence will skyrocket, and with it your all self-confidence.
When you get comfortable with the idea to become a naturist and get comfortable with your own body, comes the time to share this happiness with others. This is when you can join a naturist club and get naked socially. If you still doubt, here a seven reasons why nude is the best option when it comes to social activities with friends:

• Confidence. Although dressing nicely can boost confidence, it’s artificial. Yes, you can fake it until you become it, and it helps a lot, being naked is an entirely other level of self-confidence. Those testimonials explain why, as this article coming from Australia. Baring it all in front of others will show you we’re all alike, everybody has flaws and anybody can live happily with them, instead of chasing an ideal perfectionist image that makes our mindset unhappy.
• Freedom. This is generally the first reason every naturist gives about being nude. No clothes in which you sweat, that itch, or that you need to wash. Nothing but your own body, the air and the sun. This feeling of freedom is unique and cannot really explained. You have to live it. Some people will not feel free by being naked because they will feel shame, and shame will outweigh the feeling of freedom. By going naked socially, the shame will disappear slowly, but it may require some time and efforts until it disappears completely. The reward is worth the effort though.
• Beauty. The beauty is in the eye of the beholder, as the saying goes. It’s true for naturists too. When you are with other naturists, you tend to look at them in the eye. By being naked with your friends, you appreciate better who they really are and not the social role we all tend to play. Furthermore, and this may be personal, I find bare bodies more beautiful than clothed ones and I’d rather be with naked people than with clothed ones.
• Equality. Naked, there are no fancy and expensive clothes, just your bare body with its natural beauty and flaws.
• Friendly.  I always find naked social meetings more friendly than clothed. I do not know if nakedness adds that special sauce that make people friendlier or the other way round, but it’s an observed fact. People tend to speak more easily to strangers, without the sometimes obvious gaze…
• Fun. No clothes, much more fun. Same as friendlier. May be because people do not have anything to hide, they are more relaxed, tend to laugh more easily and participate in games more quickly.
• Respect. Naturists tend to respect others more. They will respect your privacy, your wish to stay clothed if you’re shy or just respect your point of view. It’s like fun and friendly, I cannot say why it’s more respectful but it feels that way.

I know, it can be very difficult for some people to accept others nudity, be it for education or religious reasons. However, once they understand there’s nothing sexual as being naked with others, they may start changing their mind, or you will know they are those friends that you should be clothed with. If you love them and if they love you, each will do a step toward each other and may be, sometimes, will accept your nudity. In the meantime, I wish you all great naked time with your friends. Once you tried and it has been a success, you will never ever go back to clothed activities with the same freedom.
Get Naked, Stay Naked, Live Naked and Share the Naked Love!


From: https://nuetheureux.wordpress.com/2015/12/30/7-reasons-why-nude-is-better-for-social-activities-with-friends/

[JT]

I think that all makes a lot of sense.  I've inoy have a few situations I've been able to do stuff with friends while nude, and I've really enjoyed it. It's like how we behaved with each other was different.  How we spoke and stuff, just felt nicer, I didn't feel like I was being judged by anyone for something I said or did.  I think sometimes were like conditioned or something to have a opinion of someone based on how they dress or the kinda clothes they wear. 

When I'm nude with the friends I can be, you don't have that, so kinda changes how you see than, and probably how they see me to.  So makes sense we treat people nice to.

[Danee]

I think that all makes a lot of sense.  I've inoy have a few situations I've been able to do stuff with friends while nude, and I've really enjoyed it. It's like how we behaved with each other was different.  How we spoke and stuff, just felt nicer, I didn't feel like I was being judged by anyone for something I said or did.  I think sometimes were like conditioned or something to have a opinion of someone based on how they dress or the kinda clothes they wear. 

When I'm nude with the friends I can be, you don't have that, so kinda changes how you see than, and probably how they see me to.  So makes sense we treat people nice to.

 

[mars1692]

Nudist friends are the best!

I feel like I can be more open with my Nudist/Naturist friends than my non Nudist/Naturist friends.

[jonath]

To tell the truth Ive never done something like this, but Id like to share some social time with other people just like the photos above!

[gj83]

I do enjoy my nude time with my naturist friends. When there are no literal barriers between us, it feels like there are less psychological barriers as well. I just feel more open with my naturist friends than I do with my clothed friends. And the sense of equality is very important to that feeling, too. We gather so many of our impressions of people from the clothes that they wear. It is such a great feeling to get that social barrier out of the way.

[JT]

I do enjoy my nude time with my naturist friends. When there are no literal barriers between us, it feels like there are less psychological barriers as well. I just feel more open with my naturist friends than I do with my clothed friends. And the sense of equality is very important to that feeling, too. We gather so many of our impressions of people from the clothes that they wear. It is such a great feeling to get that social barrier out of the way.

Exactly!!!   But question, how do you feel when your with the same people and clothed in like a social or work setting or something?

If it's just the guys I go nude with it does feel different, but I still feel really close, and not like im judged or something, but it doesn't feel the same. And if someone else joins us it changes the dynamics all together

I think it's way better with out clothes

[gj83]

Well, at this point, I don't have much experience spending clothed time with my nude friends. We are usually home bodies, spending time at home rather than going out. I will say that it feels different. You get a different sense of a person with their clothes on than you do with their clothes off. You know it's the same person, but it does feel different.

[Nuda Natura]

Great article.
I always noticed my figure was naturist since childhood. I'm very proud to be an open mind boy with these features.
We live in a difficult world, but in a natural way it's all more easy.

[astaggs]

Thanks for posting this article on N-C Danee. It was a great read with very valid points about social nudity, and it also introduced me to this forum. I'm happy to expand my online naturist networking

[Danee]

Thanks for posting this article on N-C Danee. It was a great read with very valid points about social nudity, and it also introduced me to this forum. I'm happy to expand my online naturist networking

Thank-you!  A N forum vet gets you that status with us as well.  Full permissions now. Thanks for joining!

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[Cabding]

I find it totally strange you can call someone a friend and NOT see them naked at some point. Why wouldn't you be that relaxed not have not seen a nip at some point?

[JOE]

This is an awesome post! This is a great article to show your non nudie friends why naturism can be fun! The fact that my friends wouldn't find being naked together normal limits that fun sadly..

[Density]

i like the confidence simply because i can relate to it the most. when i first had my first social nude experience i was as nervous as any rookie since i was a home naturist mostly. once i stripped completely not only was it refreshing but i was beginning to see the brighter side of our conversations. we both were more open about certain discussions, agreed or disagreed, but regardless we understood each other. i really hope to get to have that experience again with others in my area or just others in general. but after a year of being a naturist i am actually a whole lot more confident about being naked in general around people.

[Dogoegma]

I have had 1 chance to engage in nude rolepalying and that was really fun, I wish I could get it to take off and become popular, sigh*.
(Attached is a commission by GlichyReal on Deviantart that I had him do on this very subject). Would anyone be up for creating a play by forum game (and what would that be filed under)?