It's probably the reason I won't be so keen on joining or visiting a club when I can, unless I go with any friends I meet, but I'm not too hopeful on that yet. Things seem a little too strict. Their rules seem to assume everyone who goes there is looking to get laid. I am or at least was online friends with a guy, and he took his sons to Laguna Del Sol near Sacramento. Said it was a nice enough club, but they have a rule where if you get a stiffy, and his boys are teen sons after all, you gotta wrap a towel around yourself. Sheeh, that's like wearing a sign saying I'm hard and you might as well view me as a horny freak who wants to have sex with everyone. Granted walking around with your flag pole at full mast would be noticeable, but if you're naked most real nudists aren't going to look or really notice since they do understand it happens, and I'm sure having the towel off would minimize it, or am I wrong? I've had little home experience, and almost little with other people. I'm sure though I'd be down most of the time though. I have been in a couple private small group setting where if I tried I couldn't get up.