Koracks666 it seems you have a wrong view of what we are about. This is not a hook-up site where you troll profiles, set up dates with each other and spend all your time in the gallery like other sites.
When we say to get into the community, we simply mean join in with topics and discussions in the forum. Start topics and have fun. If there are members you seem to have a connection with and think they could be good friends with you, then by all means (when you are able to see profiles) you are welcome to ask them to chat with with you via pm's and outside chat rooms. If they also are happy to, great. If they are not interested then leave them be. That is how we get to know you.
It is not all about the number of posts, but the quality of them as well. If we feel members are making posts purely to increase their count, we can and do take action to counter that method.
Likewise if one of our other members makes you feel uncomfortable via unwelcome messages or comments, please let us know and we will deal with it.