The Grammys are what they are. The music that I listen to the most (indie, alternative and singer-songwriter) isn't really the mainstream of the music industry, so I don't expect my favorites to be well-represented in the nominations or chosen as winners.
Given those realistic expectations, I have to say that the Grammys were fairly decent this year. I wasn't disgusted by the picks. I was happy that Muse won Best Rock Album, although I was sad that Neil Young didn't win in that category since he is one of the greatest artists in rock history, but has very little to show for it as far as Grammys go. He did win Best Rock Song this year. (Last year, "Neil Young Archives Vol. 1 (1963-1972)" won a Grammy for "Best art direction on a boxed or special limited edition package," but in his half-century career, this year's Best Rock Song award was Neil Young's first win on the strength of his songwriting and musical ability.)
While I might not pay to buy anything by Lady Gaga (Best Female Pop Vocal Performance), I don't mind her music, and I respect her ambition and accomplishments. I like the group Lady Antebellum (which won Record Of The Year, Song Of The Year, Best Country Performance By A Duo Or Group With Vocals, Best Country Album and Best Country Song.)
BTW, see #3 in David Letterman's Top 10 Biggest Grammy Surprises:
10. Lindsay Lohan seen leaving Staples Center with Grammy-shaped bulge in her jacket.
9. New music laws prohibit rhyming ladies with Mercedes.
8. Willie Nelson provided the Grammy show snacks.
7. Jay-Z revealed "Empire State of Mind" was really about Trenton, New Jersey.
6. The new category: best male or female traditional R&B urban alternative non classic latin performance by a duo or group with vocals.
5. In a touching ceremony, will.i.am adds a comma.
4. The Academy president finally explains the difference between record of the year and song of the year.
3. Lady Antebellum and Lady GaGa form supergroup, Lady Antegagum.
2. John Mayer caught in a passionate embrace with Susan Boyle.
1. Justin Bieber. Hairpiece.
Jazz bassist and singer Esperanza Spalding was an interesting pick for Best New Artist.
One can criticize the number of awards by music category. There are seven Gospel Music and seven Country Music categories. While Gospel and Country were once very important in American music, does it really make sense to have seven Gospel and seven Country awards, but only one Alternative Music award?